The statistics are dismal. The interracial marriages of Black men and White women are twice as likely to crash and burn as anyone else’s. There are twice as many Black male/White female marriages as White male/Black female marriages, but after ten year’s time there are more White male/Black Female marriages still standing. Their marriages are 44% above-average in their survival rates.
As a survivor of a long-term Black male/White female marriage that failed, I want to put in my two-cent theory on all this.
No. I’m not going to blame Black males.
I’m not going to blame White females, either.
I’m going to blame it on the inadequate ideology that exists in America on how we are to relate to one another.
I just watched this absolutely fascinating 60 Minutes segment on babies. These researchers have found a way to test babies that show that morality is inborn. They show a little five-month-old three puppets, one puppet helps the other puppet get a toy and the baby likes that puppet best. But, there’s another side to these little infants. First the researchers get a detail about the baby that he likes cheerios better than graham crackers. He prefers the puppet who also likes cheerios, who is also mean to the puppet who likes graham crackers. Apparently, bigotry is inborn and only unlearned by around age ten in a properly socialized youngster.
We were born in the same school district, Argo, Illinois, under the sickly sweet stench of the Argo corn starch factory. He moved away when he was nine. He was sadistically slaughtered on my third birthday, August 28, 1955. He was fourteen. 
